Something old, something new...

It's so tempting to buy wonderful wedding trinkets that are perfect for your Big Day. You may find make signs to direct your guests to the cocktail hour! You may buy string lights that are perfect to hang over the dance floor. You may want elegant paper parasols to shade your guests during the ceremony...

But then you might think, "What am I going to do with 22 turquoise vases and 177 tea lights?!" Well, I've done the research and here are some websites that may help you to recover some (or all) of what you spent and you can pass on your treasures to other brides who can use your unwanted wedding items:

Recycled Bride - http://www.recycledbride.com/

Bravo Bride - http://www.bravobride.com/

Bride to Bride Boutique - http://www.bridetobrideboutique.com/

Wedding Bee - Classifieds

Craigslist - http://craigslist.org

Spiced Hot Toddy

This is just another option for offering hot drink options to your guests (tray-pass them for something extra special)...

•1/2 gallon (8 cups) apple cider
•1/2 cup fresh lemon juice, plus 1 strip zest
•1/2 cup fresh orange juice, plus 1 strip zest
•3 cinnamon sticks
•4 whole cloves
•1 tablespoon unsalted butter, softened
•Bourbon, rye or whiskey (optional)
•Cinnamon candy sticks, for garnish (optional)

Combine the cider, citrus juices and zest, cinnamon sticks and cloves in a large pot. Simmer over medium heat, about 20 minutes; do not boil.

Ladle the cider into mugs, leaving the zest and spices in the pot, and add about 1/2 teaspoon butter to each mug. Spike the adults’ drinks with a shot of bourbon and garnish with cinnamon candy sticks, if desired.




Thank you to liquor.com for their recipe

Add a little flavor to the entertainment...

I have been fortunate enough to have many brides who have been very creative in demonstrating their culture during their wedding festivities. Live music and cultural rituals are a perfect way to draw attention to the bride and/or groom's cultural heritage or at least their "something special"...

Is your groom Scottish? Maybe have a bagpiper lead the bridal party down the aisle during the procession.


Are you Brazilian? Maybe have colorful Carnival masks (see photo) handed out to your guests to start the dancing hours.


Are you Indian? Have dancers come to perform a Baliwood number to give your guests a break from the dancefloor.


Are you Mexican? Have a mariachi band play at the cocktail hour.


Even hiring a solo guitarist to play some Bob Marley, Jack Johnson, and other mellow, surf music can really set the mood for a beach wedding.

Call or email me for suggested vendors in Santa Barbara!

Family Florals - To Pin or Not to Pin?

It is traditional wedding practice to have florals for honored guests who are not in your wedding party - typically close family. These guests include: fathers, mothers, grandparents, and anyone else who is walking down the aisle. If you're on a REALLY tight budget, family florals are not required. However, the cost to you tends to be nominal and the enjoyment that your granny gets from receiving a corsage is priceless. However, one thing that I have noticed is that women HATE pinning their blouse/dress/jacket and putting a hole in their clothing with the pin. An alternative is a wrist corsage. They do feel a little "sophomore year homecoming" but they are beautiful, practical, and easy to wear - all good things.

TIP: A side note about the GROOM'S boutonniere is that I ALWAYS suggest that the florist makes TWO for him. One for the aisle and one for half-way through the reception when all of the hugs have ruined the first one. And you can always have the second one in case the first one is broken during pinning - yes, that happened to a groom of mine (no, I wasn't pinning his bout).

Busy Couple + Good Vendors = Amazing Wedding

Jennifer Osborne and her now husband, Bill Haley chose the breath-taking Bacara Resort as the backdrop for their destination wedding. She was born and raised in Santa Barbara and is now a high-powered executive in Atlanta. They met and fell in love and wanted to seal the deal, officially. But a big, fluffy wedding was not their style and they both have great careers and families to focus on - not a bunch of fluff and frills. They relied upon the professionalism of their vendors for advice and guidance while they still stuck to what was important to them. Bacara Resort requires an event planner for all events and will allow a month-of planner in special cases - which is where I came in.

The Bacara provided just about everything that the couple needed to complete their rustic, beach-inspired wedding. Shannon of Effloresce created a stunning ceremony scape but brought the beach to the resort with enormous periwinkle blue hydrangeas and white porcelain seashells on the guest tables. Jon with JHS Productions provided all of the music for the day - a bagpiper for the ceremony (VERY cool), a guitarist for the cocktail hour (perfect!) and he spun the music for the rest of the evening himself bringing an amazing energy and freshness to the dance floor. Margie of Iced Tea Photography is a childhood friend of Jennifer's and one of the easiest photographers I've ever worked with! Thanks for the beautiful shots, Margie - see below.

Jennifer & Bill couldn't have chosen a more perfect group of vendors to work hard to make their day so amazing! I cannot wait to work with these vendors again. It was a blast! Thanks, Jennifer & Bill for letting me be a part of your special day - it will not soon forget how much fun it was for everyone!

Kasey & Skye Tie the Knot...

My dear friend's sister, Kasey Kearin, married the love of her life, Skye Sander, on June 18th, 2010. I had the pleasure of working primarily with Kasey's mom, Sharon, during the planning process. Sharon was very organized - leaving me to-do lists with each of the boxes of favors, menus, etc.

The ceremony was held at Montecito Covenant Church and the reception was at the ever-popular Cabrillo Arts Pavillion - overlooking the ocean! Santa Barbara BBQ put out some amazing food while Genevieve Ontiveros provided the florals - she's one of my all-time favorite florists to recommend to brides on a budget. Donna the Cake Lady (as I like to call her) provided the cake - another great budget-minded vendor and their DJ combined live music & singing with a very ROCKIN' dance party. Photographer Brian McGuckin and his second shooter captured the day beautifully - see photos below!

Sharon & Kasey managed to throw an amazing reception that was intimate - despite the 120+ guests - memorable, original, and romantic! An amazing evening... Congratulations you two love birds!

Time Flies When You're Having Fun

A smooth, well-thought-out timeline is crucial for any event to be successful. Without a great timeline, the event will be sloppy and the great details and creative pieces will be overshadowed by chaos and unpredictability. I used to think that all brides had been dreaming about their wedding day since they were 12. I have recently been proven quite wrong. When I started to discuss the teeny-tiny details of the day with two of my brides, I could almost see their eyes glazing over - on the phone!! We started talking about the importance of a solid, yet flexible timeline for the Big Day and I realized that they might need a little more guidance than most... so I sent them a template for a wedding day timeline which also included questions to help each of them determine the individual features of their day that they would have to include in the timeline. I thought that some of you might benefit from as well. Enjoy!

10:30am: Hair appointments for Bridal Party and Mother of the Bride

11:30am: Hair/Makeup for Bride & Bridal Party

2pm: Bride and Groom get ready in separate rooms
Flowers arrive
Photographer and Videographer arrive to start shooting

2:30pm DJ arrives to set up

3:30pm: Guests arrive at ceremony
DJ begins playing

4-4:30pm: Ceremony
Unity ceremony (wine pouring, planting seed, readings by family, pouring sand)

4:30-5:30pm: Cocktail Hour
4:30pm: Bridal Party photos
5:00pm Bridal Party joins cocktail hour

5:30pm: Guests enter into Reception

5:40pm: Grand Entrance:
Grandmothers are announced and wave from their seats.
Parents, Bridal Party, and Bride & Groom are announced and make entrance into ballroom and gather on dance floor

5:50pm Music continues and all guests are invited to Dance

6:15pm: Guests sit / Bride and Groom First Dance

6:20pm: All sit / Best Man Toast

6:25pm: Maid of Honor Toast

6:30pm: Father of Bride welcomes guests

6:35pm: Slideshow (while Dinner 1st course is being served)

6:35-7:35pm: Dinner

7:35pm: Bride & Groom thank guests

7:40pm: Father/Daughter dance

7:45pm: Mother/Son dance

7:50pm: All guests are invited to Dance

8:45pm: Cake cutting & service

8:55pm: Bride presents bouquet to her Grandma

10:30pm: Reception ends

QUESTIONS TO CONSIDER FOR YOUR TIMELINE/PLANNING

GENERAL
• Which of your vendors will need payment on the night of the event?
• What, if any, special items (guest book, escort cards, etc.) need to get to the ceremony/reception site(s)?
• How will your special items get to the ceremony and/or reception site?

CEREMONY
• Will you have programs?
• If so, how will they be distributed to guests?
• Will you have a guest book (or something for your guests to sign)?
• Will you have a gift table at the ceremony site?
• Will you have a “unity display” during your ceremony (wine ceremony, candle lighting, sand ceremony, etc.)?
• Will you have special items at your ceremony (parasol umbrellas, fans, bubbles, etc.)?
• Who is breaking down the ceremony site?

RECEPTION
• Will you need escort cards (table assignments) at the reception site?
• If so, how will they be displayed to guests?
• Will you have a gift table at the reception site?
• Will you have other special features at your reception (a photo booth, a candy station, etc.)?
• Who will bring your gifts to you at the end of the night?
• Who will collect all of the special items (guest book, centerpieces, etc.) at the end of the night?
• How will the special items get to you at the end of the night?